My turn to vent ...

... and please don't make me explain this it's just a vent!!!

Why did I have to have a friggin' Birthday?!!! Since then my kid Sister has called twice and is now sending email jokes ... She's "almost a happy homemaker again". Her words, my reply "err" her's "What? I was good at that part!".

Fuck Fuck Fuck It's the almost part that scares me LOL

Guess you'd have to understand Narissitic and addiction to understand where I am coming from but let's just sum it up by saying once "trust is gone what's left?"

I keep her at a distance for good reason. Problem is my weakness to her ... I've rescused her 3 times from herself now and sworn next time she must rescue herself ... I'm firm in that and keeping her at this distance has been healthier for us all.

I'm angry at her ... Her kids are in Newfoundland and don't even hear from her and yet she's "Almost a happy homemaker" give me a fucking break!!!

Oh gawd Ive got to be sick :pale:

It's pretty hard not to swoop in and "rescue" family members - even if you know better. I have finally - almost, sort of - washed my hands of my manipulative (albeit very mentally ill) sister. I call her on my time, see her on my terms - but still, she is my sister and although I know her wily ways, she is one of my weaknesses. I read your email and felt a wave of empathy. Sorry...