Domestic Violence makes my blood boil and yet ...

I better sit on my hands for a few ... So flipping pissed off that i'd take great pleasure in rearranging his balls for him.

A true 'Man' and Partner, supposed husband does NOT tear you down and accuse you of having an affair when you tell him your friend "treated you out for hair and nails/lunch date" ... He should be encouraging her as well instead of cutting her down.

A big part of me wants to go kick his ass but the other side says stay out of it and just respect your friends wishes.

So ya I took her out ... Tammie's been recently accepted for her ODSP something she not only waited over a year for but she had to fight for it as well ... and my Birthday is tomorrow so our 'nail date' turned into getting her hair done ... So FRIGGIN" what she owes no explanations that friggin' so called man owes her apologies though and i've half a mind to make sure that happens ...

*Someone save me bail money please* oh wait I've got Hubby but if I disappear for a few days well this explains it all ...

:twisted: :cyclops:

we'll take up a collection for you

Show him the bill and tell him to get some help!!

Thanks Yorkie ... Seriously though this isn't the first time. I've known them for years, Tam longer but still ... This isn't the first time we've crossed this bridge. I've literally done Tammies' hair in rollers,flat ironed many times so because I last minute invited and treated her out he has warrant to treat her like that ... I don't friggin' think so, he needs to be set straight apparently AGAIN and get a clue ... Guess this will give him another excuse to 'not like me' again but so friggin' what ... I plan to demand that he apolgise to her tonight ... in person.

His bullshit is un-acceptable PERIOD.

good for you,sounds like she needs a friend

I hear you.
I've been your friend.

this part you wrote...
I plan to demand that he apolgise to her tonight ... in person.

How will that help her?
Won't it get him acting worse?

You don't need the bail money.
I got a shovel and time and a BIG hate on for iccks that abuse women
I'm a good digger.

we need someone with a farm and lots of land LOL

yorkiemom wrote:

we need someone with a farm and lots of land LOL

crap.. the coyotes out here will take care of it.. less then 48 hours.. LMAO

too much work to dig

I'll help hide the body :twisted:

Why do you all think I have 6 dogs'?
My dogs take care of mama.
you still do kinda of need the shovel. :bounce:

Jersey fivedogs wrote:

Why do you all think I have 6 dogs'?
My dogs take care of mama.
you still do kinda of need the shovel. :bounce:

LMAO.. for what.. HA HA HA HA..

why do you think I have a pig too..LMAO

You need the shovel to hit the ass over the head with.
My dogs just dig.
mmm...a pig eh?

Sounds like we have everything now but the victim LOL

Jersey fivedogs wrote:

You need the shovel to hit the ass over the head with.
My dogs just dig.
mmm...a pig eh?

LMAO.. Crap the easy way out. LMAO

you might dent that shovel.... I have other ways.... eh mousey ( you know that military trainning)

I forgot to add.. shovels cost money too...

shouldn't waste a dime on sludge buckets...

Haha thanks girls I really am upset about it ... what started off as 'good intentions' led to my friend having to explain that she did nothing wrong,crying,all upset WTF I don't have to like it or do I?

I too wonder how my going up there and getting 'in his face' is going to help as well, Fuckers not home from work yet but she honestly 'wants me to call' and I know that is not going to go over well.

So not cool

Bring it girls nothing like an ass kicking for Stormie's birthday (Tomorrow) ... Hopefully they take Visa for bail money? lol :face:

Sorry I blew my money earlier LOL :lol:

Seriously it sounds to me like she needs you to listen to her,I would avoid making it worse for her,he might apologize when you are there,but it would probably be worse in the long run for her

You're probably right Yorkie ... I've tried calling up there but maybe she un-plugged 'cus' she knows how him and I rub each other the wrong way.

I feel so bad for her

Just be there for her is all you can do right now

I wouldn't say anything, I think it would make it worse. People only treat us like doormats if we allow them to. Instead of a rescue, perhaps she needs a simple observation made that he will only treat her that way as long as she accepts it.... just my idea.

Update - Tammie's husband apologised to us BOTH this morning and he loved her 'do'.

that sounds much better Stormie,I am glad it worked out