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PostSubject: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 9:00 am

Not posting it, just a question for the guys .. sorry pervs :lol:


Twice now, Oldest (hes 13) has been caught sneaking onto the computer to look at porn.
Last time he had made up a fake facebook account and was getting naked women pics to his inbox... not sure how because i've never seen porn even on facebook before Shocked, I took away his right to be allowed on facebook, I block it when I go to bed and unblock in the morning and so far he hasn't figured out how to get around that BUT now he has figured out if he goes to websites by google they don't show up in the history (yes I check the history lol) anyways This morning when I turned on the computer the "restore last screen" came up as if he just turned the computer off without shutting it down right, so I pushed restore and it took me to some free adult live porn cam Shocked
So I asked if he was on it of course he said "no" so I asked youngest as hes a rat :lol:
and he says "Yes, he was looking at girls touching their boobs" Shocked

Now the fact hes looking at porn doesnt really bug me too much, makes me feel old but figured it would happen at some time just wasn't thinking so soon and as my computer has crashed twice from virises there is a no porn site rule..
So my question to the guys is 13 to young for hubby to pick him up a girly magazine? scratch

I'm so not ready for them to be growing up Shocked
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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 11:24 am

Might be a legal issue with it . And you know how kids are he would show his friends , more legal issues .
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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 11:35 am

That is a tough one. I imagine that his friends will end up seeing it as well and their parents won't be happy. What about a parental blocker on the computer so that those sites aren't able to come up or at least not without a password.

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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 11:53 am

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Might be a legal issue with it . And you know how kids are he would show his friends , more legal issues .

The girly magazine? scratch

He's always been very shy so worrying about him taking it out of the house to show his friends isn't a real concern.

Hubby thinks hes old enough, claims he had a few under his bed by this age but pfff like im going to go by his thoughts alone :lol:
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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 11:57 am

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That is a tough one. I imagine that his friends will end up seeing it as well and their parents won't be happy. What about a parental blocker on the computer so that those sites aren't able to come up or at least not without a password.

We have the blockers on, but the kid is too smart and seems to get around them, I've checked and no good porn shows up in searches just crap porn thankfully nothing hard core.
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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 12:31 pm

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kbullet wrote:
That is a tough one. I imagine that his friends will end up seeing it as well and their parents won't be happy. What about a parental blocker on the computer so that those sites aren't able to come up or at least not without a password.

We have the blockers on, but the kid is too smart and seems to get around them, I've checked and no good porn shows up in searches just crap porn thankfully nothing hard core.

Then you might as well.. if he doesn't get it from you legally, he'll just continue to get it on his own. Perhaps set some rules like it doesn't leave the house, and when he needs alone time he puts a sock on the door LOL

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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 12:44 pm

If he doesn't find porn, he will use his imagination. I did, and had no idea what a clitoris or what labia were till I actually got laid. Sex Ed makes women look like they have a cow head shape in their tummy and not much detail is given on the actual bits and bobs.
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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 1:50 pm

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.D. wrote:
kbullet wrote:
That is a tough one. I imagine that his friends will end up seeing it as well and their parents won't be happy. What about a parental blocker on the computer so that those sites aren't able to come up or at least not without a password.

We have the blockers on, but the kid is too smart and seems to get around them, I've checked and no good porn shows up in searches just crap porn thankfully nothing hard core.

Then you might as well.. if he doesn't get it from you legally, he'll just continue to get it on his own. Perhaps set some rules like it doesn't leave the house, and when he needs alone time he puts a sock on the door LOL

lol I dont think the put a sock on the door would help just embarrass him

Going to change around rooms today for the boys will be in their own rooms just so kev doesn't happen to walk into their room and catch him "playing" as they are sharing a room right now then he can just close his door

I so should have had girls it would be so much easier :lol:
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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 2:01 pm

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If he doesn't find porn, he will use his imagination. I did, and had no idea what a clitoris or what labia were till I actually got laid. Sex Ed makes women look like they have a cow head shape in their tummy and not much detail is given on the actual bits and bobs.

If he uses his imagination I at least wouldn't have to know about it :lol:

ok personal question for you now ... were you "playing" with "it" at 13?

I don't know why it seems too young as I know its not but for some reason I can't stop thinking he's not old enough to be wanting to do that maybe its a first born child thing and im not ready for him to grow up desite the fact he's 6 inches taller than me already :lol:

If it was the youngest I don't think I'd be as surprized as that one has always openly checked out girls boobs and drooled over the swimsuit and underwear swimsuit catalogs but oldest has never shown interest in girls before this
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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 2:49 pm

.D. wrote:
dr_strange wrote:
If he doesn't find porn, he will use his imagination. I did, and had no idea what a clitoris or what labia were till I actually got laid. Sex Ed makes women look like they have a cow head shape in their tummy and not much detail is given on the actual bits and bobs.

If he uses his imagination I at least wouldn't have to know about it :lol:

ok personal question for you now ... were you "playing" with "it" at 13?

I don't know why it seems too young as I know its not but for some reason I can't stop thinking he's not old enough to be wanting to do that maybe its a first born child thing and im not ready for him to grow up desite the fact he's 6 inches taller than me already :lol:

If it was the youngest I don't think I'd be as surprized as that one has always openly checked out girls boobs and drooled over the swimsuit and underwear swimsuit catalogs but oldest has never shown interest in girls before this

If you ever find a crusty sock in his room then he's jerking it.

I think people play with their private parts at younger ages, it's only when the hormones kick in that it becomes worthwhile.

Just think of it like this, some girls start having a period at the age of 11, my step sister didn't have one till she was 16, I remember because she was all whiny and crying. Still don't get why she got to skip out of school that day, so unfair.

13 isn't too young if the body is responding.
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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sat 06 Mar 2010, 6:11 pm

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If you ever find a crusty sock in his room then he's jerking it.


I could have gone my whole life without that image in my head Shocked
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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Sun 07 Mar 2010, 9:02 pm

Sorry Snitty,not to young,I also have a 13 year old boy and yep it has already started,I KNOW what he is doing in his room at 2 in the afternoon on a beautiful Saturday

If you think girls are any better think again,they start at about the same age

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PostSubject: Porn   Mon 08 Mar 2010, 11:29 am

Raising girls is a lot more difficult than boys - I know - I had two and before they left home I was almost bald and what little hair I had left was prematurely grey. If you think girls are easier ask yourself this - how would you re-act if your 13 year old son was a girl and while cleaning her bedroom you came across a box of condoms with 3 missing?????? Kids experiment at a lot younger age these days, and they know a lot more then we did at their age. The only other comment I can make is "I'm glad my youngest is 30 and their out on their own and no longer a worry" I don't think I could survive another bout of raising children through the teen years.
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PostSubject: Re: Porn........   Mon 08 Mar 2010, 12:57 pm

*sigh

I wonder if telling him it will fall off will put off him growing up? :lol:

So not ready for having teenagers, they've had the "sex" talk and I know they know more than we've told them but still wasn't ready for this, most likely a good thing I already dye my hair or i'd be gray before I turn 31 :lol:
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PostSubject: Porn   Mon 08 Mar 2010, 8:01 pm

Telling him it will fall off won't do any good - most boys are to smart to fall for that old wives tale. But what you can tell though is that no woman will ever be truly satisfied "Because no man will ever have a chocolate Penis that ejaculates Money" Read that on a plaque in the mens room at the local bar - the plaque is now hanging in my bedroom.
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