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PostSubject: I have the worst luck.   Thu 25 Oct 2012, 10:38 pm

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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Thu 25 Oct 2012, 10:47 pm

I hope if someone found or finds the envelope that they are honest, makes the call to you, and return every penny. Sorry that happened to you, you're under enough stress, some people can be such arses.
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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Thu 25 Oct 2012, 11:04 pm

Wow over 14000 views.
I hope you get it back.
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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Fri 26 Oct 2012, 12:43 pm

I hope you can get it back, I just have no faith in people anymore. Please keep us up to date, and good luck!

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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Fri 26 Oct 2012, 9:21 pm

No news of my missing envelope with all our money in it. I'm starting to give up hope. I pray that whoever found it, would consider that yes it is a large amount to find. But it is also alot to loose. I may very well be homeless because of it.

My little brother Jesse was leaning on a car when the driver decided to drive off, hitting him with the side mirror and knocking him to the ground, his left leg went under the car. He now have a rod from his knee to his foot.
My father is admitted to the hospital. Lemon size tumor in his bowel. Doctors removed it, found cancer on his liver. Standing at his hospital bed....I have to be the strong one, i'm the oldest, ok its mom's time to break down, i'll take care of her. Make sure you eat something mom.

It has been really hard on me. I really don't know how I'm keeping it together. Too tired to cry I guess. I spent the day in the hospital with my husband. He has been suffering with phenomia and couldn't go to work today. His boss said that its possible that he might be let go for missing too much work due to illness. My kids are sick with boogery noses and diarrhea. I just feel numb at this point.

Auto pilot mode. Also known as "Mom Mode".
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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Fri 26 Oct 2012, 9:30 pm

I wish good things for you.
Keep talking here- it helps.
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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Sat 27 Oct 2012, 12:00 am

Tootles, I am so sorry,seems like everything that could go wrong for you has,hoping for the best for you and the family

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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Mon 29 Oct 2012, 9:45 pm

I feel like i'm going crazy.
Matthew's cough is bad this morning so I kept him home from school.
Shannon is still not well.
I'm Nurse Mommy.
Then Matthews room almost caught fire this morning.
Firefighter Mommy.
Hubby went back to work this morning.
I called his cell this afternoon only to learn that he had been rushed to the ER again.

He had blacked out at work.
I packed up two boogery kids and took them to nanny's.
Taxi Mommy.
Sitting at the hospital with my husband I realized that I forgot to eat today.
He is getting counselling and 4 days off.
He has been so stressed out lately.
I'm supportive Wifey.

Tring so hard to look normal and stay awake.
KFC for supper.....(Chef Mommy)..lol

Is it a bad thing that I just feel numb?
Lately I have been on Auto Pilot Mommy.

I just got off the phone with my mommy.
Dad is going for his first treatment of Cemo tomorrow.

.......i haven't dealth with this.....this cancer thing yet......
........sad daughter? I don't know.
Scared?
Angry?
I'm just numb. and so tired........i can't even cry.

(sorry for ranting. thank you for listening.)
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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Tue 30 Oct 2012, 8:51 pm

My dad's cancer is terminal.

We don't know how much time he has left.
How do I do this? How am I suppose to be strong?

Do you know that feeling when your on a carnival ride and your stomach drops
and you feel helpless? There is nothing you can do but wait for it to be over.

My life feels like a carnival ride.

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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Tue 30 Oct 2012, 8:57 pm

tootles wrote:
My dad's cancer is terminal.

We don't know how much time he has left.
How do I do this? How am I suppose to be strong?

Do you know that feeling when your on a carnival ride and your stomach drops
and you feel helpless? There is nothing you can do but wait for it to be over.

My life feels like a carnival ride.

overr

I'm so sorry to hear about your father. It's hard to stay strong but sometimes it's healthy to just have some good hard cries, rather than keep it bottled up. There are moments when you don't always have to be the strong one. Let your husband be the strong one for you. <<hugs>>
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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Tue 30 Oct 2012, 9:20 pm

I'm sorry about your dad.
I'm not trying to compare a dog to your dad but my Hudson had cancer and my world was messed up for lack of better words.
I had never dealt with cancer before and I sucked at it. (who the hell would know how to deal with it without some help)
I was hurt and scared and fucking pissed off.
and this was "just my dog." (he was my best friend but he wasn't my parent)

I don't want to overstep or anything but do you think you could talk to a professional about your feelings?
I have needed to talk to people over the years when life became overwhelming and I needed some help.
You can only get some strength when you ask for help with stuff and you are reaching out here.

I found a site with some things that have helped me.
I'll post it for you if you like.
Keep in mind-pick what "speaks" to you and just read it.
I read things that helped me a bit.

This is the site...

http://zerotolerancetonegativethinking.com/Keeping%20adversity%20in%20perspective.htm

I don't talk so good sometimes tootles and I'm just trying to help.
You have too much on your plate but it is what you have on that plate.
But if you are overwhelmed you need to get help and that's a good thing.

Maybe read some of that and maybe something will make some sense for you like it did for me.
Small steps.




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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Tue 30 Oct 2012, 10:17 pm

I am really sorry about your dad Tootles

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PostSubject: Re: I have the worst luck.   Wed 31 Oct 2012, 8:04 am

Tootles my heart aches for you.

Please get yourself to your own doctor (hopefully he/she is a good, caring one) and ask if they can give you something to help you get through this. It doesn't matter how strong we are and what we face, there are times when we all need someone or something to get us through. Right now those that would normally help you are all in need of support themselves. You will be running on autopilot and trying to be there for everyone, so you need to be able to sleep and think.......neither of which you can do when you are over stressed and exhausted.
There is no way to pick and choose who needs you most.......you will try to be there 110% for everyone. If your doctor can prescribe something that will help you cope, your mind, body and soul will appreciate it.

Hugs to you .......... and remember, you need to take care of yourself as well I love you
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